Homily: Second Friday of Ordinary Time

Second Friday of Ordinary Time (1 Sm. 24:3-21) “Turn the Other Cheek.”

“Vengeance is mine says the Lord.” (Dt. 32:35). There is another popular saying that does not come from the Bible which is, “Don’t get mad, get even.” This second saying seems to be the sentiment that governs most of the interactions in our society.

Whenever we hear about a mass shooting it seems like the perpetrator feels like they have been grievously harmed by the world at large or at least by a group of people. Many times, we see people take revenge on the people of a school they go to or the people who work at a business they were employed at. Tragically they often end the shooting by taking their own life. Perhaps there is a sense that they must get even before they leave this world.

We have been reading from the Book of Samuel the last few days at Mass. David and Saul engage in quite a feud. Saul tries to kill David on several occasions. We read in this passage how David has a chance to murder Saul, but he does not.

He has a sense that it is not his place to decide who will be King of Israel. He does not want to take the throne in a bloody coup. He leaves the succession to the monarchy in the hands of God.

Saul, who has been chasing David in order that he may kill him relents when he sees that David has let go of the quarrel. He agrees that God will decide who will be favored with ruling Israel.

It would be nice if everyone could let go of the desire for revenge. Wouldn’t it be better to say, “God will rectify the injustice I feel some day. I just must let my anger go.” How much less violence would there be in the world between individuals and between nations?

Reflection Questions:

1.    Do I feel that I have enemies? Who are they?

2.   When someone insults me do I want to retaliate? What would be a better course of action?

 Dear Parishioners,

           The cold weather always leads to extra expenses and decrease collections in parishes. Heating bills increase. We have snow removal costs. Since people can’t make it to church then we do not have much income.

          This weekend we will have below zero temperatures again. Please remember that if you are in poor health, you do not have an obligation to attend Mass. Also remember that the parish still needs your donations. If you can make up contributions when you come to Mass, we would deeply appreciate it.

          May our Lady, pray for all those who suffer because of the cold.

          Fr. Mark