Homily: Sixteenth Tuesday in Ordinary Time (Mt. 12:46-50) “Who is my Brother?”

Homily: Sixteenth Tuesday in Ordinary Time (Mt. 12:46-50) “Who is my Brother?”

The relationship that Jesus had with his family is always a matter of debate. In fact, the way that a family was defined in the ancient world has also been argued about. Who were these brothers of Jesus that are referred to in this Gospel?

The best way to explain might be to talk about how different cultures think of family. In our culture, we define a family in a very nuclear way. A family consists of parents and the children born to them. But in other cultures, this is not the case.

I find it interesting to talk to Fr. Matthew about his family. In Africa there is a whole different concept of family. Fr. Matthew speaks of having half brothers and sisters who he considers his family. His stepmother and his father were very generous people. If a child was orphaned in their neighborhood, they might give that child a home. One’s family is anyone who grew up in your household. Fr. Matthew does not take time to explain how his brothers and sisters are related to him. He just calls them his siblings.

I believe this is how it was with Jesus and his family. The people who lived with Jesus when he was growing up are his brothers and sisters. I find this a comforting way to look at the Holy Family. Joseph and Mary, I would believe, were parents to many children. Jesus’ family life was not placid as has been painted for us, but there was the hustle and bustle of any big family. People moved in and out of his home.

Jesus had an ever-changing relationship with his brothers and sisters. We sense that not all of them approved of his ministry at first. He was giving up his occupation. He was beginning a whole new way of life. He was saying controversial things. Jesus’ family was unsure of what to make of it all.

As time went by, they seemed to change their opinions. We remember, James, the brother of the Lord was a leader in the Christian community in Jerusalem for example. Perhaps our idea of family is a little too restrictive. What if we broadened our idea of who our brothers and sisters were? It might change our lives.

Reflection Questions:

1.    Do I have people in my life who are like brothers and sisters to me? Who are they?

2.    How has my relationship with my family members changed through the years? Who have I had the most tumultuous relationship with?

 Dear Parishioners,

           Sunday was a great day in our parish. We put the celebration of groundbreaking together rapidly when we got permission to proceed with our building project, but things worked out well. Sometimes a little spontaneity is a good thing. I think the prayer was sincere and the happiness was as well.

          I neglected to read a letter from Bishop Lou. It was printed in the worship aid. He was unable to be with us because he had committed to being in Coal Valley for that parish’s 50 anniversary celebration. He was very sorry but assured me that he would be with us for dedication day next Spring. Let’s continue to pray for the continued success of our building program.

          May Our Lady of Peace pray for us today.

          Fr. Mark